Congratulations on the DD! Although like you I prefer the full body shot of that same suspension.
As for the asshole that decided that shibari = disrespecting women, ignore him/her. The ultra-PC people that try to make everything a gender issue (or a conservation issue, or a political issue... you get the idea) piss me off. There is more respect between the rigger and the model than what I see claimed that this complainer is trying to give the model, and I strongly believe they do that, like all extremists, fundamentalists and bigots, because they get off on their moral superiority.